An alpha female who wants to be in charge and always in control, once had an opportunity to have a man who truly complimented her. A man who was both successful and confident in himself, but her immaturity forced her to hightail because of an incident in a New York nightclub. That man is Sean Combs aka P. Diddy and there will never be another perfect man for Jennifer Lopez like him. Women like and admire a man they can respect and who is not afraid to be a real man before them; not a man they can easily toss around and who is as good as any of their girlfriends. Women wants something different and which gives them reason to always be in the now, working him as a work in progress which they have to get done. P.Diddy was what the doctor Cupid prescribed for Jennifer Lopez; he was her only true love. So until she summons up the courage to damn the world and make peace with P.Diddy, she will keep on searching for that other elusive Mr Right which is not anywhere out there, because P.Diddy is it and P.Diddy is still very much a bachelor. ICHEOKU says yes, P. Diddy and J.Lo were made for each other and their hearts still beat for each other and they both need to swallow whatever ego and pride that is on the way and get back together.
This is the cure to her sleeping around with so many men and her supposedly being unlucky in love syndrome. If she likes she can sleep with all the men in this world; if she likes she can marry more men than the duo of Liz Taylor and Zsa Zsa Gabor put together, married; but until her heart once again finds rest in the arms of P. Diddy, her search and sleeping around or laying in men's arms will continue indefinitely. The latest of this her cry for help, unlucky in love, men in her life saga, is the Canadian Hip Hop artist Drake, who was pictured in a cuddly pose with the Jenny from the block, her tenth man on record. ICHEOKU says her Drake encounter will also be as short lived as her other past many men, if not shorter. Drake is not the one and Drake does not possess the personality of one who who would be a Jennifer Lopez's keeper or someone she would last long with. She needs a man molded in the personality of P.Diddy, somewhat crazy and somewhat a ladies man with the means to back things up. P.Diddy is still around, so why try to settle for something like something, an imitation, when the original is still much around. There can only be one P.Diddy and that is the person Jennifer Lopez has a beating heart for, but is being held back by a society that is too judgmental and which likes to butt into other people's private and personal matters.
So very soon Drake will also go down in history as one of the men Jennifer Lopez once screwed and dumped. And the list is long enough, from David Cruz to Wesley Snipes to Ojani Noa to Tommy Mottola to Puff Daddy to Chris Judd to Ben Affleck to Marc Anthony to Casper Smart and to now her latest fling, Drake. To say that Drake is equally lost in the wilderness of unlucky in love and not finding his heart's delight us far is also a true statement. He tried Rihana but came out short; then he was seen around Taylor Swift but that one also did not pan out well as it also went south and now Jennifer Lopez is his latest fill-up woman. Put in another way, both parties are forlorn in love troubled hearts, who are seeking for true love but unfortunately are not lucky thus far in finding it. Some school of thought even suggested that their latest cuddly picture was a mere show, possibly put up to get the attention of or annoy someone or towards some prospective business venture. But regardless, they are living a lie and deceiving each other doing this lovey-dovey cuddling in the arms of each other because they are both other people's woman and man respectively. Drake is not the right type for Jennifer Lopez and Jennifer Lopez is not the right type for Drake either. They both belong to some other people; they need partners that will compliment them and not ones who will be in competition with them as they have similar qualities.